Male & Female Condoms: The FPA Guide

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Last update: March 2019
Review date: July 2024
Version: 15.01.19.03.W

Male & Female Condoms: The FPA Guide

Condoms

Condoms are barrier methods of contraception. They help prevent pregnancy by stopping sperm meeting an egg. They also help protect you from sexually transmitted infections.

An external condom fits over an erect penis. It’s made of very thin latex (rubber), polyurethane (soft plastic) or polyisoprene. It’s sometimes called a male condom.

An internal condom is put in the vagina and loosely lines it. It’s made of polyurethane or nitrile polymer (synthetic rubber). It’s sometimes called a female condom.

If 100 sexually active women don’t use any contraception, 80 to 90 will become pregnant in one year.

External Condoms

If always used correctly, according to instructions, they’re 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. This means that 2 in 100 women will get pregnant in one year.

If they’re not always used correctly, about 18 in 100 women will get pregnant in one year.

Internal Condoms

If always used correctly, according to instructions, they’re 95% effective at preventing pregnancy. This means that 5 in 100 women will get pregnant in one year.

If they’re not always used correctly, about 21 in 100 women will get pregnant in one year.

Sperm can get into the vagina during sex, even if you use a condom. This may happen if:

  • the penis touches the area around the vagina before a condom is put on (pre-ejaculation fluid or ‘pre-cum’, which leaks out of the penis before ejaculation, may contain sperm)
  • the condom splits
  • the condom doesn’t fit properly
  • the external condom is put on inside out
  • you don’t use the condom according to instructions
  • the external condom slips off the penis
  • the internal condom gets pushed into the vagina
  • the penis enters the vagina outside of an internal condom
  • the condom gets damaged, for example by sharp fingernails or jewellery
  • you use too much or too little lubricant
  • you use oil-based products (such as body lotions) with latex condoms; these can damage the condom

If any of these happen, or if you’ve had sex without using contraception, you can get advice about emergency contraception below.

Condoms are free from contraception and sexual health clinics, young people’s services, genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinics and some general practices.

They may be available for free at some pharmacies and other locations as part of local schemes.

You can buy them from a pharmacy or online. External condoms are widely available from vending machines, supermarkets, petrol stations and other shops.

Make sure there’s a CE mark on the pack. This shows the condoms meet safety standards. If the pack also has a BSI Kitemark this shows the condoms have been independently tested to meet high quality standards.

CE Mark
CE Mark

BSI Kitemark

  • You only need to use them when you have sex
  • They help to protect both partners from some sexually transmitted infections, including HIV
  • There are no serious side effects from using condoms
  • External condoms come in a variety of shapes, sizes and textures
  • External condoms are easily available
  • An internal condom can be put in any time before sex
  • External condoms can sometimes slip off or split
  • Internal condoms can sometimes slip out or get pushed into the vagina
  • Some people are sensitive to latex condoms, though this is rare
  • When using an external condom, you have to pull out after you’ve ejaculated, before your penis goes soft, holding the condom firmly in place at the base of the penis
  • When using an internal condom, you need to make sure the penis is in the condom and not between the condom and vagina and that the open end of the condom stays outside the vagina

Yes, condoms are suitable for most people.

Some people are sensitive to the latex in external condoms. If this is a problem you can use external polyurethane (soft plastic) condoms or internal condoms.

If you have trouble keeping your erection during sex, it might be difficult to use external condoms.

Internal condoms may not be suitable if you aren’t comfortable touching your genital area.

You’ll find instructions on the condom packet or in a leaflet inside the pack. You can also ask your doctor, nurse or pharmacist.

Use a new condom each time you have sex. Check the ‘use by’ date on the packet – if it’s out of date, don’t use it. Be careful how you take the condom out of the packet – sharp fingernails and jewellery can tear the condom.

Find the teat or closed end and hold it between your thumb and finger to keep the air out. This will help you roll the condom on the right way round.

Put the condom on when the penis is fully erect and before the penis touches the vagina, genital area, anus or mouth.

Still holding the end, roll the condom all the way down the penis.

If it won’t roll down then it’s probably on inside out. If so, throw it away and start again with a new condom as sperm could now be on the first one.

If you have foreskin, you may find it easier and more comfortable to put the condom on if the foreskin is pulled back.

This lets the foreskin move freely and reduces the risk of the condom tearing or slipping off.

For anal sex, the use of additional lube is important to help prevent the condom breaking. You may need to apply additional silicone or water-based lube in and around the anus.

As soon as you’ve ejaculated, and before your penis goes soft, hold the condom firmly in place at the base of the penis while pulling out.

Do this slowly and carefully so you don’t spill any semen (the ejaculation fluid that contains sperm).

Take off the condom, wrap it and put it in a bin. Never put it down the toilet.

Make sure the penis doesn’t touch the genital area again, and if you have sex again, use a new condom.

The packet contains instructions.

Use a new condom every time you have sex.

Check the ‘use by’ date on the packet – if it’s out of date, don’t use it.

You can put the condom in any time before sex if you want to. Always put it in before the penis touches the vagina, genital area or anus.

Be careful how you take the condom out of the packet – sharp fingernails and jewellery can tear the condom.

You can put the condom in the vagina when you’re lying down, squatting or with one leg on a chair. Find the position that suits you best.

Hold the closed end of the condom and squeeze the inner ring between your thumb and middle finger. Keeping your index finger on the inner ring helps you to insert the condom into the vagina.

With your other hand, separate the labia (folds of skin) around your vagina. Put the squeezed ring into the vagina and push it up as far as you can. Make sure the outer ring stays close against the area outside your vagina (vulva).

It’s a good idea to guide the penis into the condom to make sure it doesn’t enter the vagina outside the condom.You may need to hold the outer ring in place, outside the vagina, to stop the condom being accidentally pushed into the vagina.

As the internal condom is loose-fitting, it will move during sex.

But you’ll still be protected as long as the penis stays inside the condom.

To remove the condom after sex, simply twist the outer ring to keep any semen inside. Then pull the condom out gently.

Wrap the condom and put it in a bin. Never put it down the toilet.

Make sure the penis doesn’t touch the genital area again, and if you have sex again, use a new condom.

Most external condoms come ready lubricated to make them easier to use. Some people like to use extra lubrication.

If you’re using an external latex or polyisoprene condom, never use oil-based products – like body oils, creams, lotions or petroleum jelly – as a lubricant.

These products can damage the latex and make the condom more likely to split. Some ointments can damage latex or polyisoprene.

If you’re using medication in the genital area (for example, creams, pessaries, or suppositories) ask your doctor, nurse or pharmacist if it will affect latex or polyisoprene condoms.

Water-based and silicone-based lubricants can be used with all types of external condom.

Any lubricant can be used with external polyurethane (soft plastic) condoms.

Check the condom packaging to see what a condom is made from.

Some condoms don’t have any lubricant on them so that you can choose not to use lubricant, or to use a lubricant of your own choice.

Internal condoms come ready lubricated to make them easier to use. Some people use extra lubrication.

Any lubricant can be used with internal condoms. This includes body oils, creams, lotions or petroleum jelly. If you’re using medication in the genital area, for example, creams, suppositories or pessaries, you can still use internal condoms.

No. If used correctly, condoms are an effective method of contraception and you don’t need additional spermicide (a chemical that kills sperm).

A few types of external condom are lubricated with spermicide. The spermicide commonly contains a chemical called nonoxinol-9, which may increase the risk of HIV infection.

Try to avoid using spermicidally lubricated condoms and don’t use spermicide as a lubricant.

Yes. You can use condoms any time after the birth. Using extra lubricant can make sex more comfortable.

Yes. You can use condoms immediately after a miscarriage or abortion.

There are many types of external condoms including regular, larger, trim, stimulating and fun.

Regular condoms

These are an average length and width to suit most penises and are straight-sided with a round or teated end. You may feel more comfortable with a larger or smaller condom.

Larger condoms

These are condoms designed to fit a larger penis. They vary in shape and some are flared to improve comfort and make them easier to put on.

Smaller condom

Often known as trim condoms, small condoms are designed for a thinner or shorter penis.

Made-to-measure condoms

Custom-made condoms are for people who can’t find a condom that’s comfortable or the right size.

Ejaculation delayers

Most ejaculation delayer condoms contain benzocaine. Benzocaine is a low strength local anaesthetic, similar to that used in throat lozenges. It’s in the condom lubricant or teat. It temporarily numbs the nerve endings of the penis.

Heightened stimulation condoms

Some condoms have a special lubricant that creates a warm or tingling sensation for both partners. Others have extra lubricant to increase sensation. Textured condoms – for example, ribbed, dotted, or studded – aim to increase sensation during sex.

Fun condoms

Coloured, flavoured, glow-in-the-dark and novelty condoms aim to make sex more fun. Check the packaging as some novelty condoms may not be suitable to use as contraception or to help protect from sexually transmitted infections.

Strong condoms

These condoms are slightly thicker and sometimes have extra lubricant. They’re usually made of latex. Strong condoms are not less likely to break.

Thin condoms

These condoms are thinner than a regular condom, providing greater sensitivity for both partners.

Vegan condoms

Many latex condoms contain a milk protein called casein. Vegan condoms don’t contain animal products.

Lambskin condoms

These are made from animal products and aim to feel like natural skin. They won’t help protect you from sexually transmitted infections. Don’t use oil-based lube with lambskin condoms.

Any condoms can be used for oral sex, but oil-based products on the lips like lipstick or Vaseline may damage latex or polyisoprene condoms.

Polyurethane types can be safely used. Flavoured condoms can be a good option.

Dams (soft plastic squares) can be used to cover the vulva or anus during oral sex to help protect from sexually transmitted infections.

Standard external condoms are suitable for anal sex. There’s no evidence that stronger or thicker condoms are better or safer.

Some people prefer to use internal condoms for anal sex.

It’s very important to use water-based or silicone-based lubricant to reduce the risk of the condom tearing.

Condoms go through several different tests to check they’re free from holes, the strength and stretch of the condom, the air pressure needed to burst one and the safety of the packaging.

Look for a CE mark and/or a BSI Kitemark on the condoms (see Where can I get condoms? above).

Always keep packets of condoms and individual condoms where they can’t be damaged by strong heat, sharp objects, light or damp.

It’s a good idea to pack condoms – even if it’s ‘just in case’. If you’re going abroad, take your favourite brand from the UK.

That way you won’t have to rely on a local brand which could be packaged in a foreign language or which may not have been made to the same standards.

The Sexual Health Helpline gives confidential advice and information on sexual health - including contraception.

The number is 0300 123 7123. It's open Monday to Friday from 9am to 8pm and at weekends from 11am to 4pm.

You can also find our full range of Family Planning Association's patient information guides here.

Find details of sexual health clinics and services, GP surgeries and pharmacies on these websites:

If you've had sex without contraception, or think your method might have failed, you can use emergency contraception.

Try to get emergency contraception as soon as possible after unprotected sex to give it the best chance of working.

A copper intrauterine device (IUD) is the most effective option. Some people will get pregnant even when they take emergency pills correctly.

  • An emergency IUD (copper coil) can be fitted up to 5 days after sex, or up to 5 days after the earliest time you could have ovulated (released an egg).
  • An emergency contraceptive pill with the active ingredient ulipristal acetate (UPA) can be taken up to 5 days (120 hours) after sex.
  • An emergency contraceptive pill with the hormone levonorgestrel can be taken up to 3 days (72 hours) after sex.

Emergency pills are available for free with a prescription or to buy from a pharmacy.

For more details see our guide to Emergency Contraception here.

Most methods of contraception don't protect you from sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

Condoms and internal condoms (also known as female condoms), used correctly and consistently, can help protect against STIs.

Try to avoid using condoms that are lubricated with spermicide. Most spermicides have a chemical called nonoxinol-9, which may irritate the skin and increase the risk of HIV and other infections. Regular lubricated condoms are fine.

For more details see our sexually transmitted infection guides here.


A final word

This guide can only give you general information. The information is based on evidence-guided research from The Faculty of Sexual and Reproductive Healthcare of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence, and the World Health Organization.

All methods of contraception come with a detailed patient information guide.

Contact your healthcare professional or a sexual health clinic if you are worried or unsure about anything.

This guide was accurate at the time of writing. Guides are reviewed regularly.

Last complete review: March 2019, last clinical update: March 2019, next review scheduled: July 2024.

If you’d like information on the evidence used to produce this guide or would like to give feedback, email fpadirect@fpa.org.uk.

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