Primary school relationships, sex and health education (RSHE) lesson outcomes
Updated: September 2025.
The following provides an overview of what is taught to primary school aged children with FPA's Yasmine and Tom.
After the lessons - pupils should be able to (or know how to do) the following.
Year 1: lessons designed for KS1, age 5-6
Lesson 1: Introducing Yasmine and Tom
- Describe some ways that boys and girls are similar or the same.
- Know that there is more than one way to be a boy and more than one way to be a girl.
Lesson 2: Friendships and feelings
- Describe what makes a good friend.
- Identify when friendship feels good.
- Describe how to solve a problem when a friendship goes wrong.
Lesson 3: Different families
- Identify different types of families.
- Describe a similarity and difference between different types of families.
Lesson 4: My brilliant body
- Explain that all bodies are different.
- Say what is brilliant about our body.
- Explain what to do if someone says mean things about someone’s body.
- Describe how to get help.
Lesson 5: Keeping safe
- Recognise when a situation is safe or unsafe.
- Describe some ways that we can keep safe.
- Describe how to get help.
Lesson 6: Sleeping well
- Know how important it is to get good quality sleep.
- Know how to develop a routine before bedtime.
Lesson 7: Keeping clean
- Explain why it is important to keep clean.
- Give two examples of things to keep ourselves clean at home.
- Give two examples of things to keep clean at school.
Lesson 8: Safety in the sun
- Know how to protect ourselves when it is sunny.
- Understand what happens if we don’t protect ourselves in the sun.
Lesson 9: Good manners
- Understand the practice of using good manners and being courteous to others.
Year 2: lessons designed for KS1, age 6-7
Lesson 1: Keeping clean and taking care of myself
- Name objects used to help keep someone clean and healthy.
- Explain why it is important to keep clean.
- Name tasks we can do for ourselves to look after our bodies.
Lesson 2: Naming body parts - external and private
- Name different parts of our body including the private and personal body parts.
- Explain what private and personal parts are and how they are identified.
Lesson 3: Keeping safe (lesson revisited)
- Recognise when a situation is safe or unsafe.
- Describe some ways that we can keep safe.
- Describe how to get help.
Lesson 4: Healthy eating
- Know what a healthy diet is.
- Suggest healthy meals for the school cook.
- Understand what happens if you have a poor diet and the risks involved.
Lesson 5: Emotions and anger
- Recognise different emotions.
- Use techniques to help us manage our emotions.
Lesson 6: Keeping fit
- Know what happens to the body when we exercise.
- Know why it is important to exercise.
Year 3: lessons designed for LKS2, age 7-8
Lesson 1: Yasmine and Tom recap and ground rules for Year 3
- Contribute to small group discussions.
- Identify one person we can talk with about growing up.
- Identify something that will make us feel safe to discuss bodies and relationships.
Lesson 2: Me, myself and I
- Show respect to others who are different to me.
- Tell you at least one thing I am good at.
- Tell you one thing I can do to make myself feel better if I am feeling down.
Lesson 3: What makes a good friend?
- Name two things that make a good friend.
- Name two things that would make me think someone is not a good friend.
- Explain what I need to do to be a good friend.
Lesson 4: Families and getting on with our families
- Name one thing that most families have in common and one way in which families can be different.
- Identify who I talk to if I am worried about anyone or anything in my family.
Lesson 5: My personal and private body parts and keeping safe
- Label the personal and private parts of bodies.
- Explain the difference between safe and unsafe touches.
- Know that no one has the right to touch us in a way that feels unsafe, not even someone in our family.
Lesson 6: People who can help us on and offline
- Identify someone I can ask for help if I need it.
- Explain what the CEOP reporting symbol means.
Lesson 7: Being safe in the sun
- Explain the benefits and dangers of the sun.
- Know how to protect ourselves from the harmful rays of the sun.
Lesson 8: Hidden sugar
- Identify healthier snack choices and explain the reason for their choice.
- Interpret food labels to understand sugar content.
- Understand what happens if you have a poor diet and the risks involved.
Lesson 9: Getting physical
- Understand the benefits of exercise and how it can help the mind and body.
- Know that it is important to exercise every day.
Year 4: lessons designed for LKS2, age 8-9
Lesson 1: Gender stereotypes and aspirations
- Take part in a discussion and respond respectfully to someone we don’t agree with.
- Describe what a stereotype is.
Lesson 2: My personal and private body parts and keeping safe (lesson revisited)
- Label the personal and private parts of bodies.
- Explain the difference between safe and unsafe touches.
- Know that no one has the right to touch us in a way that feels unsafe, not even someone in our family.
Lesson 3: Body care
- Name at least one brilliant thing about our body.
- Explain which parts of the body we particularly need to keep clean as we get older.
Lesson 4: Is it risky?
- Know what risky means.
- Understand that some risks are good and with other risks we need to think carefully.
- Begin to understand how to take steps to assess risk and keep ourselves safe.
- Say ‘no’ to things we don’t want to do.
- Use ‘Stop, Think, Go’ to help us know what our options are if we start to feel unsafe.
Lesson 5: People who can help us on and offline (lesson revisited)
- Identify someone I can ask for help if I need it.
- Explain what the CEOP reporting symbol means.
Lesson 6: Germs
- Know the importance of washing your hands.
- Understand how germs are spread.
Lesson 7: Being safe in the sun (lesson revisited)
- Explain the benefits and dangers of the sun.
- Know how to protect ourselves from the harmful rays of the sun.
Lesson 8: Oral hygiene
- Know what a healthy diet is.
- Understand what happens to your oral hygiene if you have a poor diet and what are the risks involved.
- Know what happens to teeth if they are not looked after.
Lesson 9: Feeling good
- Know how to cope with challenges.
- Know where to seek help and support.
- Develop skills and interests to increase well-being.
Lesson 10: Keeping safe - online risks
- Understand how information online can be false.
- Recognise signs of an online scam.
- Know that using social media and some online games are age restricted.
Year 5: lessons designed for UKS2, age 9-10
Lesson 1: Yasmine and Tom recap and ground rules for Year 5
- Tell you two things that change as you get older.
- Explain what ground rules are and why they are important.
Lesson 2: Online and offline friendships
- Explain how healthy friendships and relationships make us feel.
- Explain what online bullying is.
- Tell someone what to do if they have a bullying problem.
- Tell someone what to do if they see any online or offline bullying.
Lesson 3: Keeping safe - online images
- Explain why posting pictures and videos could be risky.
- Explain the law about sharing pictures and videos of a child’s personal and private body parts.
- Describe how to help a friend who has made a ‘mistake’ online.
Lesson 4: Friendships and secrets
- Explain the difference between a safe and unsafe secret.
- Describe some qualities of a good friendship.
- Ask for help if we need it.
Lesson 5: Friendships and pressure
- Explain what peer pressure is.
- Say no to something we don’t want to do.
Lesson 6: Keeping safe - safe and unsafe touch
- Explain the need to ask and receive permission (consent) for some types of touch.
- Identify when physical contact feels unsafe and describe how to ask for help.
- Evaluate the importance of choice, control and time limit in making safer choices.
Lesson 7: Getting enough sleep
- Understand the importance of sufficient good quality sleep for good health.
- Understand that a lack of sleep can affect weight, mood and ability to learn.
Lesson 8: Keeping clean
- Understand that infection can be spread through unclean hands.
- Understand that hand washing can prevent the spread of infection.
- Understand when and how to wash hands.
Lesson 9: Safety in the sun
- Understand how to avoid sunburn.
- Understand what is appropriate clothing to cover the skin.
- Understand when to increase use of shade.
- Understand why avoidance of exposure to the sun when it is at its strongest is important.
- Understand why using high factor sunscreens is important.
Lesson 10: Oral hygiene
- Name ways to keep teeth healthy.
- Learn the correct way to clean teeth.
- Understand how your toothbrush affects your oral hygiene.
Lesson 11: Physical fitness
- Understand the benefits of exercise and how it affects our body.
- Know that it is important to exercise every day.
- Think of different activities that will exercise our body.
Lesson 12: Feeling good
- Understand what “wellbeing” means.
- Explain the link between physical and mental wellbeing.
- Give advice to young people who want to improve their mental wellbeing.
Lesson 13: Getting help
- Describe what Childline is and how to access it.
- Using my helping hand, we can identify who we can go to for help.
- Explain that there is nothing too awful or small that I can’t talk to someone about it.
Lesson 14: Isolation and loneliness
- Identify and discuss what loneliness is and how it makes us act.
- Recognise situations and events that might make people feel lonely.
- Talk openly about loneliness and maintain meaningful connections with others.
- Learn what we can do to cope with loneliness and help others who feel lonely.
Lesson 15: Immunisations and vaccinations
- Recognise the signs if someone is becoming ill.
- Know what an allergy is and name some common allergies.
- Understand that taking vaccines can protect us against a wide range of diseases and illnesses.
- Understand why taking vaccines is important.
- Understand the basics of how vaccines work.
Year 6: lessons designed for UKS2, age 10-11
Lesson 1: Changes at puberty
- Identify some of the changes that happen to our bodies.
- Describe who to talk to when we need help dealing with puberty.
- Ask for support for any changes that are difficult to manage.
Lesson 2: Periods (menstruation)
- Explain what a period (menstruation) is.
- Suggest ways to overcome possible problems from periods.
Lesson 3: Wet dreams and masturbation (optional opt out)
- Explain what wet dreams are.
- Explain that some people have wet dreams and some don’t.
- Suggest ways to manage wet dreams.
- Describe what masturbation is.
Lesson 4: Making babies - sexual intercourse (optional opt out)
- Describe fertilisation through sexual intercourse.
- Explain how a baby is made and that different people use different methods to do this.
- Describe what consent means.
- Know the age of consent.
Lesson 5: Making babies - Assisted fertility and multiple births (optional opt out)
- Explain that some people have help to become pregnant.
- Explain why some people need assistance to make a baby.
- Describe the difference between identical and non-identical twins.
Lesson 6: Making babies - Pregnancy and birth (optional opt out)
- Know how long an average pregnancy lasts.
- Explain why a pregnancy lasts approximately 40 weeks.
- Identify and explain why some things should and should not be eaten in pregnancy.
- Describe how babies are born (delivered).
Lesson 7: Identity and prejudice
- Identify things that shape our personal identity.
- Explain what prejudice means.
- Define what sexual orientation and gender mean.
Lesson 8: Equality and the law
- Describe what discrimination is.
- Explain that groups of people are protected by the Equality Act.
- Describe ways to challenge prejudice and discriminatory behaviour.
Lesson 9: Dangers of smoking
- Know the facts about smoking/vaping and the associated risks.
Lesson 10: The effects of alcohol
- Understand the effect that alcohol can have on the body.
- Understand about units of alcohol.
Lesson 11: Legal and illegal drugs
- Explain that there are risks associated with using any type of drug and identify some of the risks and effects of drug use.
- Recognise that drugs have laws related to them and that some drugs are illegal to own, use or give to others.
- Analyse the level of risk in different situations, identifying that drugs can affect people in different ways.
- Explain that for some people drug use can become an unhealthy habit that can be difficult to break but there is support available to help people.
- Know where to report any concerns.
Lesson 12: Asking for help
- Recognise when we or someone else needs help.
- Know who our trusted adults are - so we can ask them for support when we or somebody else is feeling hurt, upset, worried or angry.
Lesson 13: Marriage
- Give some reasons why people choose to marry or enter a civil partnership.
- Know relationships can bring us joy and they can give us meaning. They can be good for us; through our relationships we learn who we are, how to be less selfish and how to think of others.
- Understand for most Christians and people of other faiths and beliefs there is often a special ceremony of promises and rituals to mark marriage.
Lesson 14: First aid
- Explain some situations where someone might need to do first aid.
- Make a clear call for help to emergency services.
- Understand the basics of first aid, for example dealing with common injuries like head injuries.