Contraception may be the last thing on your mind when you have just had a baby, but it is something you need to think about if you want to delay or avoid another pregnancy.
Many unplanned pregnancies happen in the first few months after childbirth, so even if you’re not interested in sex at the moment, it is better to be prepared.
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You can have sex as soon as you and your partner want to. Having a baby causes many physical and emotional changes for both partners and it may take some time before you feel comfortable or ready to have sex.
Everyone is different, so do not feel pressured or worry that you are not normal if you don't feel ready to have sex. It can help to talk to your partner about any concerns you have.
The earliest your periods can return is six weeks after birth if you are not breastfeeding. If you are breastfeeding your periods will return and you will start ovulating when you are breastfeeding less often and for shorter periods of time. You can become pregnant before your periods return because ovulation (when the ovary releases an egg) occurs about two weeks before you get your period.
You need to start using contraception from three weeks (21 days) after the birth. Don’t wait for your periods to return or until you have your postnatal check before you use contraception as you could get pregnant again before then.
If you are fully breastfeeding you can choose to rely on this for contraception. See Will breastfeeding act as a contraceptive?.
You don’t need to use any contraception in the first three weeks after the birth as it is not possible to become pregnant in this time.
You can use male and female condoms as soon as you want to.
You can start to use the contraceptive implant from three weeks after the birth.
You can start the progestogen-only pill any time after the birth.
It is usually recommended that you wait until six weeks after the birth to start the contraceptive injection because then you are less likely to have heavy and irregular bleeding. It is possible to use it earlier if there are no other alternatives you find acceptable.
You can start to use a diaphragm or cap six weeks after giving birth.
Natural family planning can be used at any time.
This depends on what you and your partner prefer, your medical history, any problems you had in your pregnancy and if you are breastfeeding.
If you think you may want to have another baby in the next year or so you might want to try using one of these methods:
These are all effective methods of contraception if used according to the instructions. But you have to use and think about them regularly or each time you have sex.
If you are fully breastfeeding then it is usually recommended that you wait until the baby is six months old before starting the combined pill, the contraceptive vaginal ring or the contraceptive patch. These methods contain estrogen which may reduce the milk flow. If you feel there are no other suitable methods of contraception these methods can be considered from six weeks after the birth.
If you used a diaphragm or cap before you became pregnant, check with your doctor or contraception clinic to make sure it still fits – your cervix and vagina change shape during pregnancy and birth. If you lose or gain more than 3kg (7lb), you must get the fitting checked again.
Natural family planning can be more difficult to learn and use just after you have had a baby. If you used this method before your pregnancy, ask your natural family planning teacher for advice.
If you don’t want to get pregnant again for some time you may want to try using one of the following long-acting reversible contraceptives:
These methods are very effective. You don’t need to remember to take or use them.
If you use the Depo-Provera injection your fertility may not return for several months after your last injection has worn off. Sometimes it can take up to one year for your periods and fertility to get back to normal. So if you want to get pregnant sooner than this, this may not be the best method to choose.
The implant, IUS and IUD can be taken out at any time you choose and your normal fertility will return quickly.
If you are absolutely sure you do not want any more children you may wish to consider female sterilisation (tubal occlusion) or male sterilisation (vasectomy). These are permanent methods of contraception. It is not usually recommended for men or women to be sterilised at the time of childbirth, as you need time to be sure that you do not want any more children.
There is some evidence to show that women who are sterilised at the time of the birth, or just after, are more likely to regret this decision later. The failure rate of female sterilisation may also be higher when it is done at this time.
Breastfeeding is also known as lactation. When used as a contraceptive method it is also known as lactational amenorrhoea (LAM). LAM can be up to 98 per cent effective in preventing pregnancy if all of the following conditions apply:
The risk of pregnancy increases if:
Once your baby is over six months old the risk of getting pregnant increases, so even if you don’t have periods and are fully or nearly fully breastfeeding, you should use another contraceptive method.
If you are using a hormonal method of contraception a small amount of hormone will enter the milk, but no research has shown that this will harm your baby.
It is usually advised that you wait until the baby is six months old before you start using the combined pill, the contraceptive vaginal ring or the contraceptive patch. This is because these methods contain the hormone estrogen which may reduce your milk flow.
Using the IUD does not affect your milk, and copper from it does not get into the milk.
Yes. If you have unprotected sex after the baby is three weeks (21 days) old you can use emergency contraception.
If you are breastfeeding, using the emergency pill will not harm the baby or affect the breast milk.
If you have unprotected sex before the baby is three weeks (21 days) old you will not get pregnant. You do not need to use emergency contraception at this time.
During your antenatal care you will have had a blood test to see if you have had rubella. If the test showed you were not immune during your pregnancy you will probably be offered a rubella vaccination soon after the birth. It is very important not to get pregnant for one month after a rubella vaccination as it can harm the baby.
Do not have this vaccination if:
You may need to delay the vaccination if you are breastfeeding; talk to your doctor or nurse.
You can find out more about contraception from a midwife, nurse or doctor in hospital or from your midwife or health visitor at home. You and your partner can also visit your general practice or a contraception or sexual health clinic.